What is spanking?

 

In spanking one's buttock is stroked by the other person so as to arise him sexually. Different sort of striking is done on bare buttocks and it is mostly done during the sexual activities. Anything can be used for smacking the buttocks that can heighten the sexual feelings. Most commonly people do make use of hands, cane or spanking paddles. Spanking is usually considered to be a part for foreplay. Spanking is seen in all kinds of sex; opposite gender sex, lesbian sex and gay sex.

 

Gay spanking

 

Gay spanking is one of the hottest topics and that is perhaps the most searched topic as well. You can learn a lot about gay spanking from gay spanking movies and gay spanking videos. Such movies and videos are largely available online. Gay people also do enjoy spanking and it also arise their sexual feelings. It is said that the harder you hit the higher your feelings will get. They also make it more sensual by wearing special costumes so that more sensuality is felt. Also they do make use of the apparatus like benches or bed. There is actually no particular item that is needed in spanking. In gay spanking, one gay hits his penis on the buttocks of others and this gives them more pleasure. Gays do not feel like hitting harder they love hitting softly.

 

Spanking position

 

Gay spanking can be observed in a number of positions. The choice of the position is totally dependent on the spankee's comfort. The spanking is usually performed for long period of time so it is required that the spankee must be in a very comfortable position. On the other hand, the spanker must be at a distance from where he can easily and comfortable swing and access to the spankee's buttocks. The main thing is to maintain a distance that is safe.

 

How can gay people find spanking partners

 

The gay spanking partners can be easily found in clubs or bars. In bars and clubs, you can easily make spanking friends but obviously you need time to think if you two get along well with each other or not. Special spanking clubs have been formed where you can find the partners.

 

Why spanking is considered sensual?

 

Not every gay person enjoys spanking in the beginning. Initially, many gays consider it very odd and do not feel like doing it. But if the spanking is done properly and in a good way then it has its own perks. They can also enjoy spanking in bed. The erotic spanking has got the attention of many gays, lesbians, men and women. Gay people even do fantasize about spanking and it is one of their fantasy dreams once they are used to it.

 

Spanking seems to be sensual as while sex or before sex some foreplay is required in order to arise sensuality. The buttocks are a fatty and fleshy part of the body and it can create a very sensual feeling hitting on this part of the body.

 

A tolerable or decent amount of pressure felt at the buttocks is enough to bring in and arouse pleasurable sensations. For many gays, it really works to fire up the partner by a good spank. It will hit his erotic zone and he will get pleasure and give pleasure. This pleasurable act of spanking has no concept of submission and dominance. Both the partners put in their best to enjoy at the maximum.

 

Talk first and then spank later

 

If you are looking for a perfect spanking, then you first need to communicate with your partner and develop a comfort zone. A good communication is very necessary before hitting him some sharp slaps on his buttocks. Communication will help in bringing the feelings to a mutual level. It will really feel unpleasant if you hit your partner without creating a two sided feeling. It will not be taken as a slap on the butt but it will be felt like a slap on the face. Do read the body language of your gay partner and know first if he is willing to move on to the next stage of spanking or he is not yet ready. In this way, you can really enjoy this love game.